Wise Words

The More You Learn About Something, The More You Learn About Yourself......



- Just think openly about it-

I'm digging my old collection......

And I found this, being written in 2002. At the times that I feel so insecure about myself and all the heartbroken things that happen a few years back. So I feel that I want to share this and love to know what the others opinion about this.....



The truth is hurt,
I know.
The love is hurt,
I know.
Pain is hurt and lie is hurt.
But it can be better,
Than giving a truth,or doing any good.
The pain is only on the skin.
The lie come from a words.
But something that truly come from our heart
Somehow bring too much wound
That might not heal.
Either to us or the people around us.
The thing is, tell me why?
Everything that true can be so hurtful?
Why?

more from my old and new collection to come. So help me by giving a review. Just say anything eh?

Happy Valentine's Day...... Singles.

Hello, Lonely Hearts Club members (everybody can be in this club......as long as you are single)
I know that Valentine's Day is not your favourite day. Because you got no one to celebrate it. Don't worry, me too...... But there is nothing to cry about, there is always next year right?

My Valentine Quote (14th Feb 2005)

Today Is A Day Of Hope. Even You Did Not Found Your Valentine, It Is Still A Day Of Hoping To Be Loved.

I'm going to make this short and sweet ( how I love to use this phrase so much). Actually when this very day (14th Feb) coming around, it actually make me little sad because there is no one special to celebrate it with me. But then, I remember this words that I wrote to myself a few years ago, as a result to uplift me from feeling down. And it make me smile again because I know that hope is always around. Now I'm sharing it with all the singles, or I should say Lonely Heart Club members so they will never feel bad again when they got no one to celebrate this day.

That's all for now, think deeply and enjoy Valentine's Day with a smile even there is no one around to be yours. And to the one with their other-half,treasure every second that your passed today. OK?

In The Moods Of Valentine's Day: Movies And Songs (my selection)

I'm thinking about sharing my own selection of Valentine's songs and films that I believe all of us have it on our own. What is the way of making everything that you planned on Valentine's Day perfect if you did not include a music (to dance for) and the movie ( so you can cuddle each other while watching it)

Well, it was actually hard for me to choose my Valentine's songs and movies because I'm not a big fans of a romantic and mushy stuff. Most of my everyday music selection is a hard hitting alternative music that blaring my stereo. Maybe there are some mushy stuff but still have an edgy guitar string tunes. But hey, everybody must have their own 'romantic feel' moment, am I right?

So let see what is a few songs that I pick to listen in the Valentine's Day;-

• I Just Called To Say I Love You (Stevie Wonder)
• Dancing in the Moonlight(TopLoader)
• Sukiyaki (4PM)
• Thank You For Loving Me (Bon Jovi)
• I Don't Want To Miss A Thing (Aerosmith)
• Like A Rose (A1)

That's my music, what about the movies? Movies is not so hard to choose as I am a big fan of romantic comedy. Even most of the time when I'm in cinema, I prefer watch action, horror, sci-fi movies. Then? What about my romantic comedy? Well, I buy a DVD when I want to watch my romantic movies, and mostly I watch it alone..... (if only, somebody would watch it with me.... hmm...).

My favourite movies to watch in Valentine's Day...

• 10 Thing I Hate About You
• Never Been Kissed
• Ever After Cinderella Story
• Edward Scissorhand
• 50 First Dates

That's my selection that I pick to hear and and watch in the Valentine's Day. That's OK to be mushy sometimes you know (dedicatesd to people who think mushy is thrashy). Hmm.... what about yours? Did you got your own selection? Like to share?

What Could I Give You, Sweetheart?

I walk around the town and everytime I'm passing the souvenir or gift shop, all that I see is pink and red. This two colours is always mean this one special day. Valentine's Day.

Well, I'm not a big fan of this day as I got no one special to celebrate it other than with my family and friends (that surely busy celebrating it with their other half). So, let's just say that I never got any Valentine's gift from anyone special yet. But hey! I'm not going to talk or whining about it now.

So, what are you giving to your loved one this Valentine's Day?

Hmm..... this can turn to be a tricky question. And most will answer flowers, cards, CD, jewelleries, a tickets to vacation trips, diamonds (wow, you must be the lucky one) etc. But no matter what you give to your other half, the most important thing is give it with all your heart. And yes, never asking too much. Because gifts is not a real measure of how great our love are.

Actually, I think giving a presents is not really matter anymore. When you are giving something , it just to remind them how deeply we love them. But, maybe giving a presents is not bringing much excitement like before.

What if this Valentine's Day we try something that different? Instead of giving them a present, we swap it by giving all of our times for them in this special day? I mean spending one day with our loved one and doing all the thing that you and your other half really wanted to do but never have a time to do it. Because not so many people have a much time with their loved one. And I guess... it will bring the greatest memories to the couples.

But if you feel like my ideas of giving this 'one-day-I-am-yours' is not going to work or you are too busy to get a day off and still thinking that Valentine's gift is the best..... that's up to you. Because you are the only one that know what are the best. So enjoy giving a presents and love and also times for the one that we truly loved.

If I Were A Boy

I know last night I'm talking about Valentine's saga. And this is the first that I wanted to share. I have listen this song by Beyonce, If I Were A Boy. And my mind wander and thinking what if I am a boy? What would I do for my girl?

So I made up my own list of;-

If I Were A Boy

• I'll never second her for PS3 (gamers, got me?)
• I'll never flirt at the other girl when she beside me.
• I'll try my best to look presentable in front of her, as she always look great when she meet me (this is for a guy that meet their girl and dressing like a slob).
• I'll never making fun of her in front of my friends.
• I'll take care of her more than my life (sounds too corny, right?)
• I'll never cheated her to her friends (even she cuter/hotter than my girl)
• I'll take her for who she is, no matter what.
• I'll call her every night so she can dreaming about me.
• I'll call her when the morning come so I can hear her voice to start my day happily.

Well, that's my list. I know it might sound like a girl that hoping her boy to be like that. But no one's perfect.... the best is... just take the one that you love for who they are. Don't change them to be what you wanted them to be.OK?....

Total Turn-Off!

Turn-off = feel bored or not interested
= have a feeling of disgust

I believe everybody in this sweet world have their own turn-off things. No matter what the issue are, whether it was a human behaviour, a relationships, a friendships or maybe as simple as things did not work out like what we wanted to. Whatever it is.

As for me, I got like 3 things that really turned me off. Well maybe I got other than that three but I think I can tolerate them but not this three.

1. When somebody making a promise, then break it out over a various excuses (that not really convincing at all) and get back at me when the things did not workout like I'm the one that broke that promises!. That same goes over a people who take advantages over me because they know that I will be patient over their crazy antic!
2. When somebody look down and under estimated me. Especially when I'm in the good mood of showing them something that I think great or that I just newly- learned so they might get interested over it too. And in return, they just laugh at my face and saying what I done is stupid! Also when someone else is being look down can make me mad too.
3. My total turn-off when someone is talking pervert stuff in front of me and everywhere. This peoples talking about 'private anatomy' more than talking about their life! Getting too sexually too, even if it just a chat on computer and asking about how our 'anatomy' doin(???). And more bother me if a guys that I'm meeting for the first time talking about it at the first meet ( I did not meet them again for second so-called-date!). I can't stand it! So disgusting. What private is private. Only you are the one that should know about your 'anatomy'! (well that's different things if you have husband/wife)

That's my major turn-off. I think, some people think that it might not really bothering them. But remember, everybody got their own limits. Well, think that I'm going to stop now. But hey! I got 4 days Valentine saga start tomorrow, in this blog. Just wanted to share my view of Valentine Days.

Do You Love Fan Fiction?

If you do... strongly recommended this link....because I'm a big fan of fan fiction and always try to spend a time to read one or two stories...........


http://www.fanfiction.net

If you did not have any idea what is fan fiction is:

Fan fiction (alternately referred to as fanfiction, fanfic, FF or fic) is a broadly-defined term for stories about characters or settings written by fans of the original work, rather than by the original creator. (Thank Wiki!!)

That's all. Enjoy searching your favourite books, movies, celebrities, tv series,anime/manga and much more that is written by their own fans. I heart fan fictioner(i love call the fan fiction author that!)

My Review.....

Fall Out Boy: Folie A' Deux

Another interesting album by one of my favourite band. I have become a fan of them since I listen to Sugar, We're Going Down from their debut album From Under The Cork Tree (I did not listen to the whole album because I cannot find it in my local record store.....). I truly become their fans when their second album Infinity On High come out.

As for Folie A' Deux, when i heard the first single I Don't Care, I feel excited to hear the rest of the album. When I heard the album, needless to say that this is the best one. Great album to sing along and the tune is just as great as the previous album.

Maybe there was a little bit change in their music. But every musician need to grow up and of course the music too. And Fall Out Boy just prove that they making the better music as they growing up. It is not like their changing much, maybe a little but still acceptable.

Songs For Recommendation:

Well, I advise to hear all of the songs. But if I have to choose my favourite, I would say....
I Don't Care, because this song is just great to hear especially when you feeling down(I guess, because I always smile when I heard this song after mad 'session'with something or someone).... and the another one is What A Catch, Donnie, a song that include a few guests like Gabe Saporta, Brendan Urie,Travis Mc Coy, Elvis Castello, William Beckett, Alex De Leon that singing a part of their old songs and it blend pretty well in What A Catch, Donnie.

Hope Fall Out Boy will keep making a good music......

Raining Medley... huh?

It was raining so badly outside, and actually I'm enjoying it! Because i love how the raindrop falls down. And because it was cold too..... I love winter,but since there is no winter season here so I take a rainy season as a winter (sound pathetic?). But hey! who cares? Everybody got their own time to enjoy...

So as I enjoy the rain, I'm listening to the new record by Fall Out Boy. Folie A' Deux (hope i spell it right). I know it's not a album that suitable to hear while it's raining but I feel excited to hear it when I first heard their first single I Don't Care.

Well the review will come next......after I heard a full album.

Wise Words

No one can be so perfect at all. Because what we done must have their own flaw, even we never noticed about it. If we knew all about it before we done. Life is no more thrill.....

What Should I Put In My Blog?

That is a tricky question, but finally I decide to put my opinion over a few things that I see (film, tv, book,nature etc.), I heard (music... mostly),anything that pop out from my mind( this is hard sometimes, as I always suffering writer's block), and a few stuff that I write back in high school(poem/wise words).... cool huh?

I think my blog is kind of playground, that show another side of me that people might not know......

1st entry

This is my first blog... and actually i'm not the one who love sharing every of my thought. But I still think i want to vent out some of my thought and maybe some of my opinion and also some of my creativity.

Even though i got a journal (which is most of my secret in there... sshh...) but yeah, it's not a crime to have a journal and blog at the same time right?

Well that's all for now i guess....